*Disclaimer: I feel that there may be some people who could
be off put by this post; others will find it funny…it’s all based on true
events, but written for humor. That being said, if you find the title
offensive, I suggest you stop reading now.
So let’s get real. Judge me if you will, but the saying is
true: “Desperate times call for desperate measures.”
And I was this close to working in a gentleman’s club…not as
a dancer (I would never do that), but as the hostess. You think I am kidding,
but unfortunately I am not. I was desperate for work.
Let me back up a moment. Yesterday, like all mornings since
I’ve been living here in Australia, was spent on the internet looking for jobs.
By this time I had subscribed to three or four different job searching sites
and had emails coming to me if any openings popped up near our suburb in
Clontarf. One of my emails said that day said that four new jobs had been
posted nearby, so I decided to take a look. One of those jobs I had already
applied for, two I wasn’t qualified for, and the last one was a place called
Rockets looking for a hostess/waitress…perfect I thought! I read the job
description, felt qualified, and decided to email my resume/CV. Within thirty
minutes I had an email back from Rockets thanking me for my interest, but also
asking me for a recent full-length photo and confirmation of my age. Weird I thought.
So I decided to Google Rockets. And yep, it’s a gentleman’s
club! But okay, nobody else was hiring so I decided to see where this went.
Like I said, I was desperate. I sent a full-length photo (one from my friend
Robyn’s wedding; not exactly recent, but I don't feel I've changed too much) and told them I was about to turn twenty-four this month. Five
minutes later, another response! This time asking for a phone number to set up
an interview. I emailed them back telling them that I don’t have an
international phone number and email would work better for me (even though we
have the Australian phone, I thought it best to not give that out since the
boys usually have it. I didn’t want them getting a call from Rockets asking for
Cristin, before I could tell them what was going on…I can only imagine what
they would think). Two minutes later I get a response saying that email was
fine and wondering if I could interview that night at 7:30pm. I wrote back
saying that the next day would actually work better so that I could figure out
bus/train routes into the city. Boom. My first interview in Australia was set
for 7:30pm the following day!
Just after finishing up the back-and-forth emails with the
lady from Rockets, I rode my bike to Margate (a nearby suburb) to find the
Chamber of Commerce, like my dad had suggested yesterday, to see if they could
offer me any help finding work. I got the closest Chamber of Commerce address
from the internet and headed that way. Well the address given on the internet
lead me to this restaurant called The Golden Ox. I thought I was out of luck,
but decided to go in anyways and see if they could point me in the right
direction. I spoke with the receptionist, Virginia, first and told her I was
looking for the Chamber of Commerce. She told me to write my information down
and she would have someone contact me. Weird. And then she ran off and got the
owner of the restaurant, Nick. He asked me what I was looking for, so I decided
to start spilling my guts…because why not? I told him how I was looking for the
Chamber of Commerce because I had been in Australia looking for a job for
almost three weeks with absolutely no luck. I told him how I left job offers in
the states because I finally got the chance to visit a country I’ve always
wanted to see. And I told him that I would do absolutely ANY type of work. Guts
spilled. I guess he felt bad for me because he told me to come back at 6:30pm
that night for an appointment. I was dressed in black leggings and an oversized
t-shirt at this time, so he told me that I would need to be dressed for an
interview, not like I was. Ha.
Rewind three weeks. The Golden Ox was LITERALLY the very
first place in Margate I had walked into asking if they were hiring. Virginia
has flat out told me no, and that it was a “quiet time” in the season.
Fast forward back to leaving The Golden Ox the second time
around. I left and went home happy. I not only had one, BUT TWO, interviews by
the end of the day! When the boys would get home from work each day the first
thing they always say is, “Well, any luck?” The answer was always no. And
honestly, I was starting to feel like a burden…they were being nice enough to
not make me pay rent until I got a job. But this time, for the first time, I
got to tell them yes! I had luck! To top it off, when they got home they
brought in the mail, and with it was my Australian Tax File Number, which I probably
wouldn’t have been able to work without. Everything was starting to fall into
place!
Fast forward nine more hours...and I GOT THE JOB!!! At The Golden Ox :) Detaila of the interview are still to come, but for now I have to do homework...I'da thought that stopped once I graduated, but nope...I have to learn the darn menu now.
"Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name." - Psalm 100:4
"Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name." - Psalm 100:4
XO - Cristin
Hi Cristin. My name is Trissi Lemons & I've been friends with Leslie since college. She told me about your blog and I've been following and loving every minute of it!!! It reminds me of myself....when I was 17 I left my small town (Turrell, AR) and flew to Switzerland where I spent the summer as an exchange student. (I'd never flown commercially and had BARELY ever been out of Arkansas!!!) As I've read about your crazy, fun experience I'm constantly reminded of myself and that time, so long ago, when I had my first little adventure traveling outside the US. It was the time of my life!!!
ReplyDeleteI've told Les that she's lucky to have you there.....she can basically be a fly-on-the-wall through your blog and know all the minute details that boys don't discuss or deem important!!! Congratulations on your new job, and I look forward reading all about it!
I am so glad that you are enjoying it! I've never blogged before, or really kept a diary for that matter, so I'm having lots of fun doing it. Plus, it gives my friends and family back home a little look into what we've been doing here. Probably giving more information than I should be (like in this post for instance)...but this is what new experiences are all about! I'm hoping to travel even more after this stint with the boys. This has made me want to go all over the world!
DeleteP.S. I had to login to my son's google account (I don't have one) to publish my comment.
ReplyDeleteThis is so exciting!! Can't wait to hear more details on the job and how it goes! Also, glad you didn't have to snag the "gentleman's club" gig...mostly because I think dad would have had a heart attack. Haha...
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Hahaha Dad's already texted me...I think he did have a heart attack! Any more plans made for your trip??
DeleteThe Golden Ox sounds like a different kind of gentlemen's club. I can make that kinda joke on here, right?
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